Speak your piece of mind: When is it time to just call it quits......

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What We Had

I see the dignity in you
I see the love in you
I see the hurt in you
I care about you
I miss the love we shared
I miss the honesty we shared

I miss the compassion we shared

Can anything go back to normal?

I miss the talks we had

I miss the friendship we had

I miss the closeness we had

Can anything be the same?

When I left, I felt all our memories go
When I left, there was a hole in my heart
When I left there was a loss of you
I wish I could turn back the hands of time
Make everything go back to normal
But I can't and neither can you.

I cant say this blog hasn't been inspired by whats going around me so im just gonna go ahead and thank my friends all around me. They have allowed me to see so many different relationships, how they have been handled and allowed me some insight into writing this.

When is enough is enough? When do you take a look at your relationship, whether it be a friendship, a sexual relationship, a committed relationship. Do you acknowledge the faults in your relationship, try to fix them as a couple? or Do you wait until you are sleeping next to a stranger?

What do you consider when contemplating the end of your relationship? How long have you been in this relationship, how do you feel about this person? Where are you in your personal life and is it better to stick through the rough times.

What do you all believe. For me Im a patient person and i always give someone 3 chances. If you actually make it to 3 chances im not even going to say enough, im just going to pack up everything and walk away. I dont want to sleep next to a stranger because i may just fear that you're going to one day realize that you dont want to see me happy with someone else and suffocate me with my own pillow in my sleep, I think not. This 3 chances i should stress only applies if im in a commited relationship and not a marriage.

With a marriage or a decade long relationship, i think those deserve more consideration and work. You made an oath to love each other through rich or poor thick and thin...unfortunately till death (sidenote: IF i do get married...that will not be in my oath) However, when do you call it quits in a marriage?

So speak your piece...

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